Joint base top leadership sign proclamation against domestic abuse Published Oct. 7, 2009 By Steve Snyder Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst Public Affairs Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst, N.J. -- Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst is joining a national chorus in combating what could be considered a dangerous disease. In honor of Domestic Violence Prevention and Awareness Month, JB MDL top leadership took a stand against domestic abuse Oct. 6 at the McGuire community center here. At the symposium-like atmosphere sponsored by the JB MDL Family Advocacy Program, mission partner commanders took turns signing a proclamation in support of a safe and healthy community, free from damage imposed by domestic abuse. This demonstrated the military's commitment to taking care of its people, investing in the health and mission preparedness of service members and their families. Lt. Col. Robert Licciardi, 87th Communications Squadron commander, and Command Sgt. Maj. Bonita Davis, Army Support Activity, presented thoughtful speeches aimed at combating domestic abuse. "Spouses come first," insisted Lieutenant Colonel Licciardi. He urged the audience to turn off their television at night to avoid family members "doing their own thing until you are no longer a family." He further suggested that parents trust their instincts and be flexible, especially when dealing with children and teenagers. Command Sergeant Major Davis added, "No one needs to be treated this way... don't just stand around and let it happen to you." Statistics show one in five families suffer from domestic abuse situations. The frequency of domestic abuse testifies to its seriousness. Domestic abuse, after all, threatens the sanctity of marriage and tarnishes the well being of families. Children, especially, pay a high price when tempers flare and violence prevails.