National Domestic Violence Awareness Month Published Oct. 17, 2013 By Robin B. Jordan Domestic Abuse Victim Advocate JOINT BASE MCGUIRE-DIX-LAKEHURST, N.J. -- October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time for the community to unite in an effort to raise awareness and promote domestic peace and healthy relationships. During this month, Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst will have various activities and informational tables throughout the base to educate and shed light on this serious issue that impacts us all as a community. Domestic Violence is a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviors and tactics used by one person to gain power and control over an intimate partner. This may include physical, emotional, verbal, economic and/or sexual abuse. Domestic Violence occurs in heterosexual, as well as same-sex relationships, and crosses all ethnic, racial, religious and socio-economic lines. Signs of Abuse Include (but are not limited to): · Physical violence - hitting, punching, strangling, slapping, pushing · Threats or intimidation · Isolation from family and friends · Being denied access to money and/or working · Fear for one's safety · Destroying personal possessions · Shamed, mocked, or criticized; either alone or in front of others Are You a Victim? Community members who may be in an abusive relationship, or know someone who is, should understand first and foremost that this abuse is not their fault. No one deserves to be abused and there are people who can help. What is a Victim Advocate? Victim Advocates provide professional, compassionate, and valuable guidance. They are able to connect victims to services on and off base that can help. Victim Advocates also provide education, safety planning, court accompaniment, and advocate for the rights of victims. Call 754-9680 to speak with the Domestic Abuse Victim Advocate at the Family Advocacy Program.