Approaching breastfeeding as a team effort can strengthen marriage Published Aug. 5, 2009 By Michelle Hozey Family Advocacy volunteer JOINT BASE MCGUIRE-DIX-LAKEHURST, N.J. -- Family Advocacy Program offers a number of classes to help guide new parents through pregnancy, childbirth and the early stages of infancy. The classes are not just for moms; dads can find this information helpful, too. Fathers are invited to attend these classes with their wives or significant others to better understand what she is going through and how to be of help to her. One such class is about breastfeeding. "Phew! That's one I won't have to attend!" expectant fathers may think. But, as Armin A. Brott states in his book, "The New Father: a Dad's Guide to the First Year", just because men don't have breasts doesn't mean they are off the hook. "Approaching breastfeeding as a team can strengthen the marital relationship or partnership," said Melodye Giovanni, Family Advocacy outreach manager. "It can increase intimacy and marital satisfaction, as well as create a sense of accomplishment for both parents." According to the book, it can take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks for both mother and baby to get it right. In the meantime, the mother can become frustrated, not to mention incredibly sore. Mr. Brott mentioned in his book that mothers who have support from their partner have a higher chance of nursing the baby as opposed to bottle-feeding. They also breastfeed longer and have a higher probability of being successful with nursing, which means better nutrition for the baby. Breast milk contains essential fatty acids not found in formula that aid in the growth of a healthy baby. Other reasons for your partner to breastfeed include transmitting the mother's immunity of diseases to the baby, a smaller risk of the baby developing respiratory illnesses and can reduce the chance the baby will develop food allergies. The breastfeeding class teaches the basic principles of breastfeeding and its benefits. The class also helps fathers understand their role in the process. This class is offered the third Wednesday of every month from 5 to 7 p.m. There are several other classes offered by Family Advocacy to assist new parents with the challenges their new bundle of joy will bring. Before the baby is born, attend the Childbirth Preparation class. Both mothers and fathers are invited to attend this class held each month on a Saturday from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. To learn about the changes that will occur within your marriage attend Marriage with Babies, held quarterly on Friday evenings. Call Family Advocacy at (609) 754-9680 for registration and more information about these and other classes available to military families.